The Big 4-3!

Today is my 43rd birthday and you can’t understand how grateful I am for getting this far. I know that I wasn’t supposed to be here today. In fact, I wasn’t supposed to be here 5 years ago, 10 or even 20. Furthermore, I wasn’t supposed to get married, have children or sport a head of grey. I am proud to say that I’ve accomplished all three.



Every grey hair is an accomplishment

Thirty-five years ago I was writing a book report on Christopher Columbus when I had my first true encounter with cystic fibrosis. According to what I read, I would be fortunate just to hit 25 years of age. That day I realized that I was an underdog and I'd be lying if I said that I cherished the role. I contemplated giving up that day and it wasn't the last time. As anyone with a chronic disease will tell you, it's never easy. I’ve hit rock bottom on plenty of occasions and know that while the lowest point is not somewhere I want to reside, it is a place that I can wallow for a little bit, calculate my next move and begin a comeback. It's taken many years but I’ve finally learned to use the role of underdog as a positive.



An underdog with bite

Doctors can measure my lungs, my sinuses and my digestive system but they cannot and will not measure my heart. I know that I probably should feel like life gave me a bad hand but after learning about my sister's fate, I think it has actually been quite fair to me. Outsiders and those first diagnosed with a chronic disease may see it as a curse but for many like myself who have lived with it all of our lives, we have learned to see it as more of a blessing. Yes, cystic fibrosis is responsible for weakening my lungs and pancreas and most likely shortening my life, but it also has strengthened my appreciation for life, my efforts regarding my health and my desire to give back to others.

In many ways, cystic fibrosis, the disease that will someday most likely take my life, is probably responsible for saving it.



Thanks CF

My journey has been a long one but 43 years later I can honestly say it has also been a blessed one. I have an amazing wife, two wonderful children and an amazing family and friends. Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes. And while we treat birthdays as special occasions, please remember that the other 364 days are pretty special too.





I am truly blessed

Live your dreams and love your life.

Best Wishes,

Andy